How To Stop Self Sabotage
Release the patterns that keep you stuck and
prevent you from stepping into your power!
January 25th & January 26th 2025
Let Me Guess… You’re Tired of Fighting Yourself.
You set the goals. You know what you should be doing.
But instead?
You’re scrolling. You’re hesitating. You’re pouring your energy into everyone else while your dreams sit there collecting dust.
And the worst part? You KNOW you’re capable of more.
So why does it feel like you’re stuck in quicksand, no matter how hard you try to move forward?
I’ll tell you why: It’s your EGO.
Your EGO Isn’t the Enemy—It’s Just Outdated.
And for a long time, it worked.
It kept you safe
It’s the voice that whispers:
“You’re not ready.”
“What if you fail?”
“Stay quiet, don’t make waves.”
Sound familiar?
That voice isn’t you.
It’s a story you’ve been carrying.
And it’s time to put it down.
Introducing: "How to Stop Self-Sabotage"
A 2-Part Virtual Experience for Black Women Ready to Break the Cycle
This isn’t just another class about “positive thinking” or motivation.
This is about ACTION!
We are getting to the ROOT!
I'll show you how to:
Identify Your EGO Patterns: Spot the stories and behaviors that are keeping you stuck.
Rewrite the Narrative: Use my proven E.G.O. framework to dismantle self-sabotage at its core.
C.A.R.E For Yourself: Learn tools to move through fear, procrastination, and perfectionism.
Reconnect to Your Power: Step into the version of yourself you KNOW is ready to show up and thrive.
Here’s What You Get:
Two Deep-Dive Sessions: (3-4 hours each): Interactive, reflective, and real. You’ll leave with tools, not just talk.
The EGO Framework: My method for identifying, understanding, and rewriting self-sabotaging patterns.
Guided Tools & Practices: Practical, actionable skills to stop old behaviors and build new ones.
Community: You don’t have to do this alone. Connect with other Black women walking this same path.
Imagine YOU....
Showing up EVERYWHERE with confidence.
Taking bold aligned action, instead of hesitating.
Trusting yourself to keep the promises you make.
PRICING
General Admission
Class + Resources + Replay
Choose Your Price
$275 - $395
VIP Option
GA + 1 Individual Session
Choose Your Price
$430 - $620
VIP Plus
VIP + 90 Day Container
Choose Your Price
$595 - $845
Payment Options, Support Should Be In Reach!
You’ve Tried Waiting. You’ve Tried Worrying.
Now It’s Time to Move.
Meet The Facilitator
Melissa Ifill is a licensed clinical social worker and wellness coach with 20+ years of experience walking with Black women through the journey of rediscovering their own strength. Blending clinical insights with traditional healing practices, Melissa helps you unravel the layers of self-sabotage and reconnect with your inner power. Her approach is gentle, grounded, and focused on action—so you can trust the process as you learn to recover from painful experiences and step fully into the life you desire.
Testimonials
This class helped me see how my ego has been blocking so much of what I’m trying to bring into my life. I learned how I’ve been getting in my own way, and Melissa gave me the language to understand why I move the way I do and what shifts are available to me right now. Thank you, Melissa, for your energy, knowledge, and for holding space!
Stephanie R.
I love the bravery of the people in this group, mostly Black women, who come together in a safe, sacred space where we can just ‘be’—no need to explain ourselves or justify our experiences. Every time Melissa holds these workshops, she gives us that rare opportunity to show up fully, without hesitation or fear. There’s no judgment, only the loving guidance we need to open our minds and nurture our paths forward. Thank you, Melissa, for sharing your expertise, spirit, and gifts. My gratitude for you is endless!
Iman W.
Identifying my Ego story using Melissa's definition model, and quiz was an eye opener. I believe it will help me tremendous as I continue to take on my healing journey.
Symone L.
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